Understanding Resources for Great Sex in Marriage - Dan Purcell
No matter where you are with regards to intimacy with your partner, there's always a next level. In this webinar, Dan Purcell outlines his 5-step framework about what internal work every person can do to draw closer sexually, emotionally, and spiritually with their spouse.
Time Markers
0:00 – Introduction: Who is Dan Purcell
5:10- The truth
5:52- The real problem
8:55- The sex conversation that changed my life
13:33- Before vs. After
15:20- The ABCDE Framework
16:12- The ABCDE Framework: Awareness
17:48- Autopilot
19:33- Awareness problem
19:46- Awareness solution
20:53- Example
21:40- The ABCDE Framework: Balanced belonging: self vs spouse
24:00- Belong to self & belong to others
24:50- Entanglement
25:55- Toxic individualism
26:15- Healthy interdependence
27:25- Co-creating your marriage dynamic
28:00- Example: Mark & Mindy
28:45- The ABCDE Framework: Courageous action
30:20- First & second order change
31:35- Self-confrontation
32:33- Example Amy & Greg continued
33:10- Developing desire
33:53- Spontaneous vs responsive desire
35:44- Sexual brakes vs accelerators
37:45- Steps to desire
40:13- Example: Jeff & Leann
41:12- The ABCDE Framework: Embrace Eroticism
42:16- Sex is a place you go
43:43- Giving your sexual nature a voice
45:00- Novelty & deep meaning
47:25- Example: Ashley
48:30- The ABCDE Framework recap
48:55- Live Q&A
About Dan Purcell:
Dan and his wife Emily Purcell are the founders of Get Your Marriage On! Their marriage went through a bit of a renaissance a few years ago and wanted to share what they learned with other couples. They created a fun & sexy bedroom game app called Intimately Us that has been downloaded over 300,000 times. They put on events and retreats for couples. Dan is the host of the Get Your Marriage On! podcast. Dan also coaches others on marriage & intimacy.
Dan and Emily have been married for over 19 years and have 6 kids. Dan loves cracking dad jokes, running marathons, planning the next creative date night with his sweetheart, and enjoys the magnificent outdoors around their St. George home.
Webinar Guest Links:
Email: dan@getyourmarriageon.com
Podcast: Get Your Marriage On!
Instagram: @getyourmarriageon
Website: https://getyourmarriageon.com/
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