The Secrets to Staying in Love - Mark Jarvis
In this webinar Mark Jarvis will teach us research-based strategies to navigate relationship changes and be more intentional about your relationship through its life span.
Time Markers
0:00 – Introduction: Who is Mark O Jarvis?
5:07 – Famous people and how many times they were married
8:40 – Snapshot of one moment
9:58 – What stands out to you?
14:06 – Transitions within stages of relationships
16:18 – What’s the problem?
16:58 – Conflict areas for clinical sample
24:36 – Money, communication, jealousy, etc.
29:40 – 70% of problems will stick around for years to come
31:02 – Our brains are not helping
33:27 – Honeymoon brain
34:47 – Love in the brain, husband’s vs wives
36:12 – Risk Period
37:45 – Conflict is normal, and it’s not going away
38:48 – Two types of love – passionate and companionate
41:04 – Recommendations for navigating relationships
44:12 – Relationship maintenance
49:34 – If someone really loved me, they would show it by…?
53:48 – Q&A
About Mark O Jarvis:
Mark is an Associate Professor of Family and Human Studies at Salt Lake Community College, where he teaches several sections of his department’s general education courses. Mark is also a board member and past president of the Utah Council on Family Relations and a consulting member of the Utah Marriage omission. He is the director of the Salt Lake County Healthy Marriage Initiative that provides free relationship-education workshops to members of the community.
Mark O Jarvis Links:
https://markojarvis.weebly.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-o-jarvis-77978812
Insights:
Mark O Jarvis: Work on intimacy; passion, intimacy, commitment = Consummate love
Invites:
- “If someone really loved me, they would show it by…?” Answer this question
- Be a builder when it comes to relationship maintenance
- Check out the data behind conflict and other things, what can you do to increase your chances?
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