Practical Steps Couples Can Take to Heal from an Attachment Injury - Dr. Debi Gilmore
In this webinar Debi Gilmore teaches five steps to help couples learn to heal from an attachment injury; a significant trauma to the relationship. Debi tells us that most, if not all couples carry around some sort of wound that never gets solved, just keeps coming up, and if let unaddressed it will never go away. Debi is here to teach how to heal, how to help each other heal and remove those wound(s) from relationships.
Time Markers
0:00 – Introduction: Who is Debi Gilmore
2:54 – Why I picked this topic
4:24 – Questions to consider
6:42 – Power in relationships
9:06 – Debi’s agenda
10:36 – Building blocks of couple security
13:12– Relational hurts
14:57 – Attachment injury
20:00 – Cycle of disconnection-injured partner
23:03 – Cycle of disconnection-offending partner
25:12 – Successful repair elements
28:-00 – Communicating effectively
29:24 – Step one-hurt partner shares the painful story
32:20 – Step two-making sense of the injury
33:48 – Step three-courage and willingness to reveal and explore
35:10 – Step four-openly acknowledge and accept
36:20 – There are rewards
38:15 – Step five- the “time machine moment”
39:39 – Recap
41:34 – Process of forgiveness
43:09 – Live Q&A
About Dr. Debi Gilmore:
Dr. Debi Gilmore is the co-owner of The EFT Counseling and Education Center, a mental health clinic with 3 locations across the state of Utah, specializing in marriage and family therapy. She is a therapist, clinical trainer, author, and public speaker. Dr. Gilmore is a frequent presenter and keynote speaker at professional conferences and special events for the general public. She achieved her doctorate in Marriage and Family Therapy, and her doctoral dissertation was a relationship education program that is now being taught and used by therapists and religious leaders across the world. She and her husband Kirk live in Washington, Utah. They have been married almost 45 years, and together they have 3 children and 9 grandchildren, and their first great grandchild born this September.
Webinar Guest Links:
https://drdebigilmore.com
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