The Art and Science of Turning Conflict into Closeness - Emil Harker
Time Markers
0:00 – Introduction: Who is Emil Harker
08:28- My Mission
08:45- The Hole; Defining and Accepting Reality
11:25- The Moment Reason Diminishes
12:38- Overview: Limbic System, Defensive Cycle, Inevitability of Conflict, Lack of Training
12:54- The Limbic System
19:07- The Defensive Cycle
23:35- The Defensive Cycle: Humility & Accountability Are the Rocket Fuel of Intimacy
25:27- Embrace Conflict
26:08- Inevitably of Conflict
28:22- The Solution: 4 Steps of Complaining & Fencing Conflict
29:00- The 4 Steps of Complaining
41:20 Roleplaying Conflict
48:50- Fencing Conflict
49:04- The 4 Statements of Conflict
54:30 Live Q & A
About Emil Harker:
Emil is an expert in conflict. For over 20 years, his passion is about getting through the fluffy stuff to the real nuts and bolts that help people deal with inevitable conflict. His book “You Can Turn Conflict Into Closeness” has been well received by professional therapists and couples alike and was endorsed by Dr. John Gottman as a "must read.” He is a frequent presenter to professional organizations and expert guest on several podcasts, radio and tv programs including Channel 2, 4, and 5 and was even on the Ricki Lake Show with former NBA Allstar Antoine Walker talking about how professional athletes go broke. He has his own podcast called The Emil Show. His new book Confidence In Conflict is used in fortune 500 companies helping them turn breakdowns into breakthroughs in business. When Emil is home, you will find him in the kitchen baking bread or eating it!
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