Building a Lasting Connection - Dr. Debi Gilmore

In this webinar Debi will introduce everyone to the step-by-step process, learning the nuances of active listening, clarity in sharing, and emotion processing. 

The system focuses on the heart and soul of emotional connection.  

While using the system, couples learn how to find emotional safety and clarity in the communication process. 

Couples learn how to navigate through conflict in a collaborative manner.  

Couples who learn how to explore the many barriers that can interfere with a close and connected relationship within the marital partnership.  

Couples learn about the importance of uncovering and integrating shared goals and visions of their future together through a new and innovative communication process. 



Time Markers

0:00 – Introduction: Who is Debi Gilmore 

2:46—Debi begins her presentation 

3:54— Basic communication skills 

5:51—Four principles and two others that work 

8:26—Two main types of communication 

9:49—Mirror neurons  

14:50—Building a Lasting Connection® Relationship Pyramid ® 

15:06— Foundation of attachment leads to, empowered communication, and embracing differences 

16:43—An ideal world 

18:05—Reality, we don’t live in an ideal world 

20:29—Debi’s secret sauce 

23:50—The pause place 

25:46—How to listen authentically  

28:59—Communicating for closeness -what I do 

32:43—Communicating for closeness-thoughts 

36:00—Communicating for closeness-feelings 

35:55—Communicating for closeness-fear 

38:56—Communicating for closeness-what do I need? 

40:40—Communicating for closeness-hope 

42:15—Side two of the connection systems mat 

44:47—Information on how to find Debi 

46:08—Live Q&A 

About Webinar guest: 

 Dr. Debi Gilmore is the co-owner of The EFT Counseling and Education Center, a mental health clinic with 3 locations across the state of Utah, specializing in marriage and family therapy. She is a therapist, clinical trainer, author, and public speaker. Dr. Gilmore is a frequent presenter and keynote speaker at professional conferences and special events for the general public. She achieved her doctorate in Marriage and Family Therapy, and her doctoral dissertation was a relationship education program that is now being taught and used by therapists and religious leaders across the world. She and her husband Kirk live in Washington, Utah. They have been married almost 45 years, and together they have 3 children and 9 grandchildren, and their first great grandchild born this September.         

Webinar Guest Links: 

https://drdebigilmore.com/ 

https://www.buildingalastingconnection.com/ 

https://www.eftcounseling.org/ 

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