112: A Key to Keep Romance Alive Married Dating
Podcast Guest: Brandon Porter
December 23rd, 2024
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In this Episode
In this episode of Stronger Marriage Connection, Dr. Brandon Porter joins Dave and Liz to explore the importance of intentionality and creativity in keeping date nights alive. Brandon shares practical tips for busy couples, including the role of planning, novelty, and nostalgia in fostering connection. With a focus on affordability and accessibility, the conversation highlights how even small, intentional efforts can reignite romance and strengthen relationships. Whether it’s a cozy at-home date or a fresh experience, couples will find inspiration to prioritize quality time together.
“The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the Utah Marriage Commission.”
Time Markers
00:03 – Dave and Liz introduce Dr. Brandon Porter, discussing how date nights nurture connection.
02:24 – Brandon shares his early struggles and epiphanies about the value of intentional togetherness.
04:42 – How neglecting one-on-one time leads to emotional drift and relationship ruts.
06:28 – Brandon explains the role of intentionality in overcoming busyness to create meaningful moments.
10:49 – Discussing how looking forward to date nights boosts joy and connection during the week.
15:38 – Tips for creating intentional, affordable at-home date nights that feel special.
20:18 – Using novelty to keep date nights fresh and exciting without over-complicating plans.
24:19 – How revisiting favorite activities can strengthen relational bonds and create lasting memories.
27:32 – Tips for meaningful conversation that goes beyond everyday stressors.
30:19 – Brandon shares his YouTube channel and Instagram platform, “Marriage Built to Thrive,” for accessible date ideas.
33:22 – Brandon emphasizes intentionality and helping your spouse feel seen and valued.
34:06 – “Don’t make it perfect—just make it happen,” Brandon’s mantra for consistent date nights
Insights
Brandon's
When it comes to consistent date nights. Don't make it perfect, just make it happen.
Liz’s
I lovethe anticipation. That's something I'm going to apply. Starting today. We have a couple things coming up, and I'm going to send Benny a couple texts on that, anticipating and being together for whatever it might be.
Dave's
I love the nostalgia idea. I love the novelty, the fun, the creativity. Togetherness, and I love that it's planned, intentional time, that togetherness.
About Brandon:
Brandon obtained a master's degree in family and human development and a PhD in education, both from Utah State University. He has developed curriculum for, presented on, and teaches college-level courses in marriage and family relationships. Brandon and his wife, Danielle, have created resources to support partners in deepening their friendship, increasing their harmony, and keeping date night alive. They've been married for 20 years and are the parents of 6 kids.
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