110: How Resilience Can Save Your Marriage
Podcast Guest: Laura Doyle
December 9th, 2024
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In this Episode
In this insightful episode of Stronger Marriage Connection, Dr. Liz Hale speaks with Laura Doyle, New York Times bestselling author of The Empowered Wife and a relationship coach dedicated to ending world divorce. Laura shares the six intimacy skills that transformed her own marriage and have since helped thousands of women restore love and passion in their relationships. With practical advice on addressing common marital challenges, including respect, self-care, and creating a spouse-fulfilling prophecy, this episode offers a roadmap for a thriving marriage.
“The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the Utah Marriage Commission.”
Time Markers
00:03 - Introduction to Laura Doyle
02:29 - Laura's childhood and inspiration
06:16 - Challenges with traditional marriage counseling
08:31 - Key lessons from happy wives
10:37 - Self-reflection as a turning point
14:14 - The power of perspectacles
16:32 - How fear drives control
18:49 - Celebrating 35 years of marriage
19:05 - Common mistakes wives make
20:42 - Secret to changing your husband
25:37 - Respect as a game-changer
28:01 - Expressing desires effectively
32:42 - Respect: A free aphrodisiac
38:49 - Red flags for ending a marriage
44:24 - Skills for navigating divorce or separation
47:19 - How a wife’s happiness transforms marriage
49:59 - Men’s desire to make their wives happy
Insights
Laura's
Laura’s passion for empowering women to transform their marriages stood out in Episode 110. Her relatable storytelling and actionable advice about practicing respect, expressing desires, and using the "spouse-fulfilling prophecy" provided listeners with tangible tools for improving their relationships. Her vulnerability in sharing personal struggles and triumphs made her advice both credible and inspiring. Her emphasis on positivity, gratitude, and accountability resonated deeply, leaving a lasting message of hope and empowerment.
Liz’s
Liz brought her wealth of professional and personal experience to the episode, complementing Laura’s insights with her own expertise. Her anecdotes about coaching and marriage therapy added a grounded perspective to the conversation. Liz’s vulnerability in sharing her journey with the intimacy skills made the discussion more relatable and inspiring for listeners. Her ability to translate theory into practice with humor and honesty strengthened the episode's impact. Her blend of empathy and wisdom left a meaningful impression.
Dave's
Dave’s natural curiosity and thoughtful questioning allowed Laura to shine while guiding the conversation in a structured and engaging way. His ability to anticipate listener concerns—like skepticism about respect as an aphrodisiac or the challenges of overcoming resentment—made the episode relatable. Dave kept the focus on actionable strategies, encouraging Laura to explain the "why" behind her methods. His warmth and genuine enthusiasm created an inviting space for listeners to connect with the episode’s key takeaways.
About Laura:
New York Times bestselling author Laura Doyle was the perfect wife…until she married. When she tried to improve her husband, he avoided her. She nearly divorced. Then she asked happy wives for their secrets and…got her miracle. Laura’s books are published in 30 countries, and she founded a coach training school. But she’s proudest of her 35-year marriage to John, who’s been dressing himself since before she was born.
Laura's Resources
https://lauradoyle.org/roadmap
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