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Relationship Education for Service Members/Veterans

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OurRelationship is an online program with tailored content for military couples. The 8-hour program will help you uncover, understand, and solve relationship issues.

The OR program helps couples learn how to better communicate with each other so they are able to discuss issues without arguing and work together to improve their relationship. Whether it's on your own or with one of our relationship coaches, we can help you build or regain the emotional closeness and trust that you may have lost.

Backed by more than a decade of federally-funded research, OurRelationship provides effective tools and resources for couples to improve communication skills, regain intimacy, and build trust.

Service Members


  • Available through Military OneSource to active-duty service members, Guard, Reserve, and Veterans who have separated from the service within the last 365 days.
  • We are not required to report back to commanding officers.



  • Available for Veterans (of any era) that are married, engaged, or dating their partner for at least a year.
  • Couples earn $150 for completing three online surveys. Couples can earn $300-$450 for participating in an optional research study.

Participant Couple Quotes:

“Using the tools and suggestions that we received from the program, we started really communicating and understanding each other’s feelings and our own. If not for this program, we probably would not be together today.”

“We got more out of the online services than we ever have from in-person counseling. Our conversations were more honest and meaningful, and I think we both feel more empowered to be successful in a lifelong marriage.”

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