25 Ways to Speak Your Spouse’s Love Language 

Do you know your primary love language? Did you know your spouse’s primary love language is probably different than yours? We love to be loved, but we all want to be loved in different ways.

 Knowing your spouse’s love language is vital to a deeper connection and happier relationship. If you haven’t taken Gary Chapman’s 5 love languages test, you can take it here!

 Here 25 ways you can speak your spouse’s love language, whatever it may be!

 Words of Affirmation

1- Tell your partner you are attracted to them
2- Tell them what you admire about them
3- Express gratitude to them
4- Write them a love letter
5- Leave them a “love voicemail”

Quality Time

6- Put the screens away and give them undivided attention
7- Go on a walk or drive
8- Plan a special date night
9- Ask them about their day
10- Pillow talk

 Receiving Gifts

 

11- Surprise them with a gift, “just because”
12- Keep a list of things they mention they like or want
13- Stalk their Pinterest boards and buy one of their coveted pins
14- Bring home a small, thoughtful gift from work trips
15- Give personalized gifts instead of chocolate and flowers

 
Acts of Service

16- Unexpectedly take something off of their plate (do something they normally do, for them)
17- Do housework without being asked
18- Ask them how you can help
19- Notice when they seem stressed about a task, and offer to do instead while they relax on the couch
20- Run errands without being asked

 Physical Touch

21-  Show them affection in public
22- Make time for sex
23-  Give them a shoulder rub
24- Comb through their hair
25- Cuddle before you go to bed